Royalty/Place of influence. Queen Esther bathed in oil of myrrh for six months before her presentation to the King (purification, dying to self, and preparation for the KING)
Esther 2:12, Song of Songs 1:13 Myrrh, an exotic Biblical spice, was used in purification & beautification rites.
Dying to self, come to the table with the decision makers, so that we can be used in a place of influence.